Pre-Marital Counseling in Los Angeles

If you're engaged or considering marriage, you've taken an important step in exploring the benefits of pre-marital counseling. In this vibrant city of dreams and diverse cultures, couples face unique challenges and opportunities. Our specialized pre-marital counseling services are designed to help you navigate these waters and build a strong foundation for a lifetime of love and partnership.

Why Choose Pre-Marital Counseling?

Investing in Your Future

Marriage is one of the most significant commitments you'll make in your life. Just as you would invest time and resources in education or career development, investing in your relationship before marriage can yield tremendous long-term benefits. Pre-marital counseling is not just for couples facing issues; it's a proactive step to ensure you're both fully prepared for the journey ahead.

Los Angeles: A Unique Environment for Couples

Living in Los Angeles presents its own set of challenges and opportunities for couples:

  1. Career Pressures: In a city known for its entertainment industry and startup culture, balancing career ambitions with relationship needs can be challenging.

  2. Cultural Diversity: LA's melting pot of cultures means many couples need to navigate cultural differences and expectations.

  3. Fast-Paced Lifestyle: The city's energy can be exhilarating but also stressful on relationships.

  4. Cost of Living: Financial strains unique to LA can put pressure on couples.

Our pre-marital counseling services are tailored to address these LA-specific challenges, helping you build a resilient relationship that can thrive in this dynamic environment.

Our Approach to Pre-Marital Counseling

Personalized and Comprehensive

We believe that every couple is unique, with their own set of strengths, challenges, and goals. Our approach to pre-marital counseling is highly personalized, making sure that we address the specific needs of each couple we work with.

Evidence-Based Techniques

Rose Safran LMFT uses a combination of evidence-based techniques and years of experience to provide you with the best possible guidance. We draw from various therapeutic approaches, including:

  • Gottman Method

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

  • Narrative Therapy

Cultural Sensitivity

In a diverse city like Los Angeles, cultural competence is crucial. Our counselors are trained to be culturally sensitive and can help couples navigate the complexities of intercultural relationships.

Top 8 Marital Foundation Builders

1. Communication Skills

Effective communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. We'll help you:

  • Develop active listening skills

  • Express needs and feelings clearly

  • Navigate difficult conversations

  • Understand and overcome communication barriers

2. Conflict Resolution

Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. We'll teach you how to:

  • Identify sources of conflict

  • Use "I" statements effectively

  • Practice fair fighting techniques

  • Find win-win solutions

3. Financial Planning and Management

Money matters can be a significant source of stress in marriages. Our counseling will cover:

  • Discussing financial values and goals

  • Creating a joint budget

  • Planning for major purchases and investments

  • Addressing debt and credit issues

4. Intimacy and Sexual Expectations

We provide a safe space to discuss intimacy and sexual expectations, including:

  • Understanding each other's needs and desires

  • Addressing any concerns or anxieties

  • Discussing family planning

  • Maintaining intimacy in a long-term relationship

5. Family Dynamics and In-Laws

Navigating family relationships can be tricky. We'll help you:

  • Set healthy boundaries with extended family

  • Blend different family cultures and traditions

  • Address any existing family conflicts

  • Plan for future family dynamics (e.g., children, aging parents)

6. Shared Goals and Values

Aligning your visions for the future is crucial. We'll guide you through:

  • Identifying individual and shared life goals

  • Discussing values and beliefs

  • Creating a shared vision for your marriage

  • Planning for personal growth within the relationship

7. Division of Responsibilities

Clear expectations about roles and responsibilities can prevent future conflicts. We'll assist you in:

  • Discussing household chores and management

  • Balancing careers and home life

  • Planning for potential life changes (e.g., children, relocation)

  • Ensuring equity and fairness in your partnership

8. Trust and Commitment

Building and maintaining trust is essential. Our counseling will cover:

  • Understanding each other's definitions of trust and commitment

  • Addressing any trust issues or past hurts

  • Building and reinforcing trust in your relationship

  • Discussing expectations of fidelity and loyalty

Our Pre-Marital Counseling Process

Initial Consultation

Your journey begins with a free 30-minute consultation. This allows you to meet Rose, discuss your goals, and determine if our services are the right fit for you.

Assessment

We use scientifically validated relationship assessments to identify your strengths as a couple and areas that may need attention. This helps us tailor our approach to your specific needs.

Customized Counseling Plan

Based on your assessment and initial discussions, we'll create a customized counseling plan. This typically includes 8-12 sessions, but can be adjusted based on your needs and preferences.

Regular Sessions

Sessions are usually weekly or bi-weekly, lasting 50-90 minutes. We offer flexible scheduling to accommodate busy LA lifestyles, including evening and weekend appointments.

Final Review and Future Planning

In our final sessions, we'll review your progress, celebrate your growth, and create a plan for maintaining a strong relationship beyond counseling.

Why Choose Our Pre-Marital Counseling Services?

Rose Safran MFT

Rose is a licensed marriage and family therapist with years of experience in pre-marital counseling. She has the experience necessary to help you work through the challenges of your relationship.

Flexible Scheduling

We understand the demands of LA life. That's why we offer evening and weekend appointments to accommodate your busy schedule.

Inclusive and LGBTQ+ Friendly

We proudly serve couples of all orientations, backgrounds, and relationship structures. Our counselors are trained in LGBTQ+ specific issues and committed to creating a welcoming environment for all.

Success Stories

While we maintain strict confidentiality, here are a few anonymous testimonials from couples who have benefited from our pre-marital counseling:

“Rose is an exceptional, extraordinary therapist who has provided me with valuable feedback, support and insight. Rose’s knowledge, wisdom, intuition and compassion brings happiness and peace into my life and my relationships with others.”

“Thank you so much for teaching me what I needed to learn. I never knew what love was until I started to feel real love from my partner - I started to listen to you, and then I started to soften. The biggest gift you gave me was to see how my patterns of behavior were not allowing me to feel love, or give love. That was the shift for me. I knew how painful it felt to feel unlovable, but now I feel loved, real love. I love my partner so much, and it feels like my prayers were answered, but really I know it’s because I put in the hard work. Thank you so much Rose. We love you!”

“My husband Henry found Rose for us. I was apprehensive at the beginning, but Rose was amazing and really helped my husband and I during a very difficult time in our marriage. I don’t think we could have made it without her guidance. Thank you Rose Safran for your patience and guidance. I highly recommend her without a doubt”

Get Started on Your Journey

Taking the step towards pre-marital counseling is a sign of strength and commitment to your relationship. It shows that you're dedicated to building a solid foundation for a lifetime of love and partnership.

Don't leave your marital success to chance. Invest in your relationship now and reap the benefits for years to come. Los Angeles life can be challenging, but with the right tools and support, your relationship can thrive amidst the hustle and bustle of this amazing city.

Ready to Begin?

  1. Call us at 310-567-9348 for a free consultation

  2. Email us at rtsafran@gmail.com

  3. Fill out our online form to schedule your initial appointment

Remember, the strongest marriages don't just happen – they're built with intention, care, and sometimes a little professional guidance. We're here to help you create the foundation for a lifetime of love and happiness in the City of Angels.

Let's embark on this exciting journey together. Your future selves will thank you!